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We as human beings always tend to want, what we cannot have. Are you familiar with this adage? If you are planning to win back your ex in a way that is sure to catch his attention and pique his interest, playing hard to get is a very good idea.
It will help to gauge if your ex is interested in you. The game of playing hard to get involves a sense of mystery and adventure that makes you impossible to resist. Believe you me, it works.
However, remember that you should never overdo the hard to get part as this can backfire at times. Though it is okay to stay unavailable at times, do not do this always.
If your ex sees that he can never find the time to talk to you, he will soon lose interest and move on. Again, if you are too available, and if you seem needy and clingy after the break up, your ex will run the opposite direction within seconds.
Men prefer a challenge. Hence, the moment he begins to see you as an exciting challenge, he will decide to purse you. This will not only help to renew the relationship, but it will also add spice to it.
Making changes
Since you have decided to play hard to get, begin to play the part too. He should be able to see you in a completely new light – a sexy siren that he needs to win back. Let him see you in sexy and pretty dresses – wear things that you do not usually do. This will make you look more attractive to your ex.
When your ex notices the changes, he will be curious to know what other things have changed. This will renew his interest in you and he will begin to get involved once again. Basically, now you should give off a different aura than before. You should be able to tick your ex and make him interested.
Do not just remain ordinary
After all, you are playing hard to get, so you should be appealing enough to go after – do not be predictable. Since the man that you are trying to woo is your ex, he already knows a lot about you. This means you will have to work harder to make him interested.
You need to apply out of the box ideas to interest him. Let him see that you are a different person now. Getting to see you do things that you would not do before, will make him feel curious and he will want to be a part of your life again.
Keep him wanting more
Yes, make him want more – this is a surefire way of keeping your ex interested – he should keep discovering new things about you. Let him keep guessing what your next move will be.
You will not have to take his calls always. There is no need for you to remain available for your partner. Let him miss you a bit and let him wonder what you are up to – this will keep the interest factor alive and kicking! Since this should be a challenge for him, don’t let him off easily. Allow him to sweat it for you.
Remember that no matter how much you want your ex to come back to you, do not display any hint of desperation. However, once your ex begins to pursue you and once you decide to reconcile, things will begin to get serious. You will no longer have to keep up the game. It is now time that you begin to work towards making your relationship work out.
With hook, line and sinker in place look into the things that went wrong last time and begin to make the necessary changes – you will be sure glad you did.
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