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Trying to win back an ex girlfriend can be quite a challenge. Some several years ago while on the dating scene – my girlfriend broke up with me.
We had been together for just around two years when she broke the news that she was leaving. I was devastated, heartbroken, and the only think I could focus on was finding a way to get her back.
This was very stressful, heart-wrenching and an experience for me. However, years later and looking back now and really examining the situation, I realized that there were three answers to the age-old question “How do I get my ex girlfriend back?”
I will share those answers with you here.
#1 – Go talk to her.
When a break-up and all its pains are fresh, this is the answer that is probably calling out to you the most. You are probably ready with a disk of your favorite couple songs, flowers, champagne, chocolates and as many apologies as you think it will take to convince her to take you back.
However, the only thing you will really accomplish by forcing yourself upon her at this point is she truly never speaks to you again. For one thing, this approach makes you look weak, unstable, needy; and those are all things that your ex girlfriend is most likely not be interested in.
While tears may work on us guys, the last thing our women want to see is men crying and your tears and begging are sure to drive her away. For these reasons, even something as simple and seemingly innocent as a love letter can be a bad idea. I will urge you DO NOT pursue this line of action when trying to get your ex-girlfriend back.
#2 – Let your ex girlfriend approach you!
Don’t take this the wrong way. By letting her approach you, I do not mean that you should be sleeping with and bathing with the phone so that you never miss her call. What I mean is that you should make a commitment to continue living and enjoying your life as it you’d never met your ex, being sure to let any mutual friends of yours know that you are now single but, theoretically, that you would be willing to speak with your ex girlfriend.
If your ex girlfriend has dumped you before and then later decided that it was a mistake, then this is a safe bet to follow. But unless you have that history, this is also a risky method.
What you’re counting on is that she’s actually thinking about you when she might actually be off enjoying a vacation, a weekend with the girls or just about anything else that does not involve you.
#3 – Work magic through mutual friends!
Mutual friends can help you reunite with your ex girlfriend and, unlike the tearful begging, please for heaven’s sake keep your pride and your masculinity completely intact. Friends will be able to explain how you are feeling to your girl in ways that she can understand and empathize with – without scaring her away permanently.
However, it is vital that you only enlist one of her friends to help you in this endeavor. If you call every person you have a number for – who has ever known her and attempt to overwhelm her, then this ploy will surely fail and of course, miserably!
Not only will the effect be diminished, but you will look just as desperate as if you ran to her begging as in option #1. Choose one friend, I repeat ONLY ONE – and respectfully, nicely, ask if they would be willing to take a message from you to your ex. If they are willing, then be honest about what happened, be open about how you are feeling and be heartfelt. That’s your best chance of gaining a second time around with her.
Let me assure you that just sitting at home moaning about the breakup and crying the blue will accomplish nothing. However, you can also improve on the methods offered here by meeting with a professional relationship therapist, because too many at times the issues which surfaces in a relationship has really nothing sometimes to do with the other person, but most times commence with us.
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