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Every day couples break up and others make up. How do you know when a relationship is really over? Often couples stay together longer than they should because they don’t want to leave their comfort zone.
However, once they do break up, it’s really over. Other couples, on the other hand, may break up over something silly and they eventually get back together.
Come along and let’s take a look at relationships and determine when it’s best to break up when making up may still be an option on the table.
I’ve been in quite a few different relationships. Some have lasted for years while others fizzed out after a few months. Some of the long-term relationships should have ended much sooner than they did. Don’t let your feelings for your partner or ex determine if the break up was a good thing.
Even relationships that are disastrous can still have couples that love each other. Some people are just not good together. They may love each other but they’re not capable of staying together. Even when your relationship ends, there are going to still be some emotions there. Don’t ever let those feelings make you believe that making up is the answer.
You need to determine the reason for the break up. If you know you don’t really love your partner but know your partner loves you, cut him or her loose of whatever commitment you may have given to them. Give him/her the opportunity to find someone that can return the strong feelings.
If your partner has cheated on you more than once and the infidelity can be proven – or is untrustworthy in some other way, I urge you to get rid of them. You don’t want or need to be with someone that you cannot trust. Trust is probably one of the most important things in a relationship, especially one you expect to be long term. Respect is also important. You need to respect your partner and feel that they respect you.
Two of the other most important things to ensure a happy relationship are love and being able to see a future together. If you don’t see yourself with this person a year from now, break the relationship off even if you do have feelings for each other.
If you’re contemplating making up after a break up, you need to determine the real reasons why you broke up. If you broke up for reasons that are always going to be a factor, stay apart and move on. One the other hand, if you broke up over certain disagreements but still love each other, work on dealing with these issues and getting past them.
In my relationships, I’ve learned that two people are never going to agree on everything because they’re two different people. In most cases and on a wider scale we are a result of our upbringing and we’re not going to change 20 to 30 years of thinking just to make our partner happy. Sometimes you can “agree to disagree” and you’ll both be happy. But, most importantly you need to know when it’s right to walk away or stay together.
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